After discovering an affair, the life you thought you knew can suddenly feel unfamiliar. You may replay conversations, question what was real, and feel torn between wanting closeness and needing distance. Even ordinary moments can bring a fresh wave of hurt. How do you turn toward the person you love when they are also the person who hurt you?
You don’t have to know yet whether you want to stay or leave. I help couples face the impact of betrayal, make room for painful questions, and explore whether trust can be rebuilt—with honesty, accountability, and care.